This is pretty much why I have a hard time dating while enjoying music or ocassionally, reading a book. As with the “blues”, you sometimes have to go through an act or emotion to understand or relate to the mediums/outlets that express examples of those feelings. That does not mean you have to be shot in order to understand that a bullet in the ass hurts. But, if such an act did ocur, I would think the victam would have a more intuetive view of the experience versus just reading about it.
(Source: chloeechann, via nothing2fancy-deactivated201311)